Of Love And Pain

Love

Many teenagers talk about love, but do you really know what's the meaning to love?

For love, what would you do?

Who is love for?

Before you love someone.. you might wanna think of something that is more important..

Yes, love yourself. Before allowing love to anybody. Always remember to love yourself. Who's there to pull yourself together when no one's around..? It's YOU. Loving yourself also meant by respecting. If you know how to love yourself, you know how to love the others, be it your family, your pets, your friends, even your enemies. You will know how they feel as a person. How they would think and what you can do? If you don't love yourself, you will doubt the other person's love for you, and that's poison in a relationship.

I laugh, I love, I hope, I try, I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. And I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different, me and you.

How you feel, they would have experienced, there's not much difference between you and I.

In a matter of protecting someone you love, even if they had left you, whether they had passed away or your lover broke up with you, you can still play the role of being their guardian angel. Yes, it may sound like a fairytale kind of word, people may laugh at you for such an action. All in all, you protect your own feeling, your loved ones and even those whom they don't even know you!

To suicide is to give up,

To give up is to lose faith,

To lose faith is not stop believing,

To stop believing is to stop letting new chances to come to you.

One action will lead to another. You had not only let yourself down, lost hope in whatever there can be in future, but you hurt your family, your friends and even the one you loved the most.

Do you think by suicide it would make your lover love you more? It would only bring remorse, pain and fear. Your lover would fear to love, feel pain whenever the love matter appears, feel remorseful for what she had no control of.

To many, they would say "Oh come on, you're so good-looking, you can get another boy/girl."

Do you think looks are everything?

Given that you're handsome, rich and all... Do you think these can last with you forever? Even the most beautiful flower will wither and never lasts. What of a human? Do you think you'll look good when you're sick? Old? Angry? Do you think beauty can stay forever?

Love is not about looks and not about giving up your own life when all fail.

It's about yourself. Your feeling. The person you love.

Think before you act.

Time can heal and if you are brave, put your courage to test, wait for it to heal.. don't take the shortcut because once you put your thoughts to action... there's no rewind button in your life.

All's fair in love and war.. No one's right.. No one's wrong.. One thing that's sure..

Love doesn't bring pain. It brings joy. If you love love and appreciate it, do not cause pain in the name of love. Cherish the feeling, the moment for when it slip away, it'll be gone.. forever.

Love is not a matter to be laughed at.